Classified: Plan T

According to Danielle I needed to write a blog entry on what is now to be called "Plan T."

As you may have read earlier, I have been (slowly) getting over my first breakup. Yes, I know, I know... But before, you ask, this blog isn't going to be about HIM (as Danielle calls him on her blog), instead, I shall talk about what I would like to see in a guy and write about Plan T aka the ship Danielle wants to see sail.

I really feel like I need to find a guy who will watch Tangled because  after all, I am obsessed with Tangled. While I don't enjoy speaking about my ex, I will say that I sat through movies he recommended, and not happily I might add, and he never once wanted to sit through Tangled no matter how much I asked him to. The movie is an hour and twenty minutes, if you can't take the time out of your "busy schedule" to watch an hour and twenty minute movie I politely ask you to watch, there's a good chance it won't work out between us.

As shallow as that may sound, I'm honestly not someone who obsessively makes list containing, which movies you must watch to be in a relationship with me. In fact, Tangled is literally the only request I have when it comes to boys. I think it's mainly because no one I've even remotely considered being in a relationship with has actually watched the movie.

I don't know what else I may or may not want in a guy, partially because I've only talked to two people that had the prospect of being in a relationship with me.

Now, since Danielle has sat through my tears, endless amount of unhappiness, anger, frustration, self-loathing, depression, absolute needing, groveling, etc (a little overdramatized) she wants to find me a nice boy. And she has set her sights on someone we shall call T. T isn't like any of the boys I've talked to in the sense that he's not the most confident. I'm not used to having to make the first move since my ex wasn't exactly self-concious (some would say he was a little too confident). I do enjoy him because of this. It's not fun dating someone who is confident enough to think they're better than everyone else and at the same time, think you're a better person because of him. I want someone who is just as self-conscious as me, because, let's face it, you shouldn't want to be with someone who makes you feel more insecure because they feel like they're better than you.

It's weird. As much as I see something happening between us, I don't see it happening. He's really sweet and funny but like I said before, he's self-concious and doesn't make any move (even when I provide an outlet to make a move), instead he just waddles uncertain and insecure, and I hate that because I really could see me liking him (I already do) if only he'd at least ask for my number.

It's a whole crazy idea really; dating is so complicated. Why does it have to be like this? Why can't everything just fall into place, but I guess life would be too easy then, and there wouldn't be any "fun."

I just want to find someone who will watch Tangled and not think it's below him to act like a kid, because I'm definitely the type of person to act like a kid (if my other posts weren't indication enough).

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